DALE Wright has a saying, “If you don’t have a best mate in your life, one’s soul and spirit diminishes. A best mate is one who knows us,but loves us anyway.”
Dale heads a Men’s Health Group initiative called ‘Talking Straight.’ The friendships and trust he has forged with the men he has encountered, while running the support group, has resulted in him having the keys to mates’ homes. Together they enjoy the occasional Canadian Club can and great chats.
If they are not home, he leaves the used, empty cans at their front door as his calling card to let them know he stopped by.
There are also the regular texts, phone calls from the men or a drop in at his photography studio.
“That’s how it works, trust, integrity and living your values,” said Dale.
Dale, along with friend Kevin Sidebottom, have been running these groups for the past 23 years and over 200 men aged over 17, from all walks of life, have participated in the thirteen-week ‘Warrior Training Programme’.
“We all have a story to tell, and it’s these situations that have impacted on their living. Sidie and I work through a process that seems to make a huge difference in these men’s lives,” said Dale.
“If this stops one man from suicide, it’s worth it. It’s sad to know where suicide is concerned, maybe it could’ve been prevented if honest communication with other men was forthcoming.”
Dale and Sidie are in the process of inviting those of all ages to attend a confidential interview to hear how the group works and assess your needs for the next group starting in 2022.
Some of the men have been referred to by doctors or best mates who have done a group and through word and mouth when they see friends’ lives’ changed because of the groups.
“I was walking alone and angry as I lost my three-year-old to cancer. I will never get over it, but I’ve learnt to live with it, I have so much gratitude for Dale and Sidie,” said program participant Rob.
Please phone Dale or Sidie on 5821 1864 for an interview, bearing in mind numbers are limited.
